Frequently Asked Questions

​What does The Barn at Lavender Hill cost, and what's included?
​We specialize in small and intimate gatherings with family and friends up to 50 guests. See our Pricing section for Weddings and Special Celebrations. Each section provides a detail of what's included.


How many guests does The Barn at Lavender Hill Hold?
We are able to have an occupancy of 50 guests.


How can I tour your facilities?
We request that you make an appointment for tours, preferably on a Monday. We are not open to the public. Call or text Debbie at 314-280-1885 to schedule.


Can I use the horses in my photos, and is there an extra fee?
Yes, the horses are available for photos. However, horses must be booked in advance as a handler will be scheduled for your photo shoot. Check with us for pricing and information on horse photos. 


How early can we arrive at the venue?
The venue rental timeframe for parties & showers is 3 hours plus 2 hours early arrival to decorate; for weddings & receptions is 6 hours plus 4 hours early arrival according to the timeframe you reserved. 


Are the showers available to use in one of the bathrooms?
Yes - only the Cottage is equipped with a private shower. 


Can we spend the night?
Yes! The Cottage is available with advanced bookings. Call Debbie at 314-280-1885 for availability.


Do we need to clean up The Cottage and The Groom's Quarters before the ceremony or reception?
Please remove all personal belongings at the end of your event (unless you have booked The Cottage for an overnight stay) as we are not responsible for any items left behind. Remove all items you brought in and please pick up all trash. 


Where can we have an outdoor ceremony, and is there an additional cost?
You can have your ceremony anywhere you'd like on our spacious grounds, except in the horse pasture and stable areas. There is no extra cost! Most choose the ceremony garden gazebo area, providing a partially shaded environment for your guests during the ceremony. This is especially nice on hot summer days! Some couples prefer the coziness of The Cottage courtyard in front of the big barn doors for their ceremony site, while others choose inside the main Barn. If the weather is not cooperating, we have a big event tent and the Barn is a beautiful and rustic backup no matter what!

Can our pet come to the wedding?
Yes, we welcome furry friends as ring bearers, flower girls, bridesmaids, groomsmen, or just to be in the family photos. Pets must be on a leash and monitored at all times. We have other animal residents that may not get along with visitors. Cleaning up after your pet, as well as any possible damages, is your responsibility. 


What time should I start my ceremony?
We get this question a lot! Keep in mind that the maximum event length of 4 hours plus early arrival for decorating and photos. Please make time to clean/pack up before 9 pm. 


What time does the reception have to end?
The venue will be closed and locked by 9 pm. 


What if I want to have my wedding ceremony or my reception elsewhere? 
That is perfectly fine! You can book just one or all sections of the ceremony with us!


Do you have decorations and centerpieces that we can use for our wedding?
Yes, we do! We have a full decor pantry including a variety of centerpiece bases, florals, linens & napkins, stoneware, chargers, flatware, vintage glass goblets, serving platters, cake platters, drink dispensers, coffee makers... you get the picture! 


How do you handle the music at The Barn at Lavender Hill?
You may use our JBL barn speakers to play your own music selections. People have also brought their own speakers/karaoke machines as well, we just ask that you be respectful of our neighbors.


How do you handle catering at The Barn at Lavender Hill?
Guests are able to use our preferred caterers or bring in their own prepared food items for your event. You may also use the kitchen in The Cottage. 


How do I book my event at The Barn at Lavender Hill?
Dates are reserved on a first-come, first-served basis. To finalize a reservation, you must complete your contract documents and pay the down payment amount in full. 


Do you provide an event planner, or can I choose my own?
Great question! We do not offer event planning; however, we have a list of very talented planners who can absolutely help you coordinate your special event to make your day as stress-free as possible. 


Any more questions? Call or text  Debbie at 314-280-1885